Although Tommy should have notified you within that week, he's right about what he did...

Also, if your site is so important to you and your future and you worked as hard as you claim on it, don't you think as the site's admin that you would notice that it's missing long before your future employer did. Say, within that first week...? Plus, you probably shoul have checked to make sure your site was working before you gave the url on your job application. It's just common sense to check your sources. You made yourself look sbad, Tommy didn't do that...